Spam is not stalking

Some people who are being tormented by spam--- unsolicted commercial email, often for pornography or sex drugs like viagra--- fear that this torrent of mail is a personal attack by a stalker. If you already have a stalker, you may fear that a spam message is actually from your stalker.

The link above leads to an article to help you tell the difference.

If spam is your problem, try using Mozilla Thunderbird for email instead of Outlook Express. You can download Thunderbird for free. It has an adaptive junk mail control and will soon be whisking your spam out of sight before you even see it.